The first month of a relationship is the nicest. You are getting to know each other and could spend 24 hours a day, 7 days a week just with that one single person.
All your friends look at you like you are mad for not getting bored of each other already and if you would get a penny for everytime they say "Oh come on, get a room" you would be rich by now.
Then the normal life starts settling back in... well... sort of.
Normally, when you come back to your "before boyfriend"-life your friends take you back in open arms. You have been there for them all this time, and you have always been there when they needed you. But then you realise that they don't spend time with you anymore, you are not included in their gossips, and they don't call when they are planning on going out to do something.
They basically just erased you from their "after school/work"-life.
How did that happen? Weren't you always there for them? Didn't you pick up the phone when they were calling crying in the middle of the night? Didn't you lie to friends to keep them out of trouble, without them even thanking you? Haven't you done all this for them?
Then why aren't they there for you as well when you reemerge from your lovey-dovey mood.
They whisper in each other ears when you are around, telling each other secrets that obviously you can't be part of.
You gave so much for them, and they give you up because you stepped out of the party life for just a few weeks to calm down, to settle yourself and refocus. They choose celebrating with free booze and unknown guys that will pay for it over a girls night out.
That is what you have come back to. So how can anyone be surprised if you rather spend your time with someone that actually WANTS to spend time with you?
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